I help families at a crossroads on their infertility journey, have confidence and excitement about their next steps.

Hi! I'm Meta Getman, a fertility coach and mom to two beautiful donor conceived children.  I help people who are at a crossroads on their path to becoming a parent make better decisions around what the best next step is for them.  

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Free Resources

Whether you are just starting out on your path to becoming a parent and looking for support in what to talk to your doctor about or are well down the path and looking at alternative paths, these free resources will help you with what you need. 

My doctor said donor, now what?

Hearing that donor might be the next step for you can be overwhelming and scary.  This free resources helps you with the next 3 steps to take.

Donor Decision Guide

The key questions to consider when your doctor has just told you donor egg, donor sperm or donor embryo might be your path to becoming a parent. 

What my Clients Say


Client & Donor Sperm Mama

Meta has really helped me refocus my thoughts again and has helped me become hopeful and excited for what's in the near future"


Client & Egg Donor RecPient Parent

[Meta] helped me be more confident that [egg donor] is the right decision for us and encouraged my husband & I to continue to have conversations about our excitement, fears, and concerns. Meta provided great insight and asked the right questions to make you think during the conversations as well.  It was a great experience & I would recommend!”


Client & Egg Donor Recipent Parent

“Instead of seeing donor as my inability to succeed, I now see donor as my chance to have the family of my dreams.”

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About Meta (pronounced "May-da")

Meta is a donor conception coach and mom to donor conceived twin girls who went through 4 IUIs, 3 fresh IVF cycles with her own eggs, and one donor egg cycle before seeing her big fat positive.  Now she helps family focused, responsible, and thoughtful women and couples who have found themselves facing a path to parenthood they never imagined: using donor eggs, donor sperm, or donor embryo.  She has been featured on multiple podcasts, spoken at the RESOLVE Midwest Family Building Summit and co-founded a community of families who used donor to have their children.  She is also pioneer partner in the founding of International Donor Conception Awareness Day and a founding contributor to U.S. Donor Conceived Council.