"Meta is an amazing resource & advocate and so generous with her time, experience and thoughts. I honestly don't think I would be as comfortable with our situation had I not found you." Amanda, client
When your doctor suggests a donor, it can feel like your world is falling apart.
When the doctor told me the only way to have a baby was to use donor eggs, my first reaction was "NO WAY! I am NOT using donor eggs to have a baby!"
I was devastated, confused, angry and broken. I walked out of our clinic with no help, no guidance, no support, and no idea HOW I would figure it out.
It was hard to figure out infertility.
Donor felt like I was starting all over again.
I was faced with having to navigate things I never imagined I would.
And there was NO ONE in my life who understood what I was going through. No one who could help me navigate this.
If you are feeling the same way I did
...paralyzed to move forward
...unsure of how to even put into words the emotions you are feeling
...freaked out because you don't know what to expect
...need support and guidance from someone who has actually lived through this process
Then you are in the right place.
Imagine if you could...
Then this 12 week 1:1 coaching package is exactly what you need.
"I can't thank you enough for your guidance and support you provided. I know I will be leaning on those resources for years to come. Thank you 💙"
-Jessie, client
Signature 1:1 Coaching Package
Give yourself 12 weeks to transform yourself, your life, and your infertility journey so you can go from spinning your wheels trying to figure it out on your own to knowing with confidence that you are on the right path.
1
Personalized support
Every other week we jump on a Zoom together for 45 minutes to really dig into what you are struggling with or working on.
Value = $1,200
2
Laser focused coaching
Heading to an appointment? Something happen today that threw you for a loop? Access me via messenger app between calls.
Value = $1,000
3
Worksheets & Trainings
Between calls, jump into the worksheets, tip sheets, recorded trainings for the topics you are facing right now.
Value = $1,600
4
Community Support
Join our online community of people who are on the same path as you. Ask questions, get advice and meet people.
Value = $800
Total value is $4,600 but you will pay 1/3 of that!
Let me show you how you can...
- Stop the worry spiral and feeling stuck on what to do next so you are able to make rational and confident decisions.
- Find clarity on your feelings about your family building options and what the best next step is for you and your family.
- Be certain that you are building the family of your dreams, whatever that looks like.
- Find a renewed sense of excitement about moving ahead with the next chapter of creating your dream family.
- Deepen your connection with your partner so you can make empowered decisions about your future family.
- Gain a clear understanding of the donor process: from deciding donor is your path to choosing a donor to what to expect during a donor cycle so you are well informed on what to expect.
What You Get
- Initial 90-minute intake Zoom call so I can get to know you, your story, and we can start to build our action plan.
- 6 bi-weekly (every 2 weeks) Zoom calls where we will dive into your specific concerns/needs and develop action plans to address them.
- Unlimited messaging support in between calls to keep you on track, encouraged, and to help you keep moving forward.
- Personalized and tailored guidance to help you get to where you want to go faster and in a more streamlined way.
- Workbooks, worksheets, resource guides and tip sheets to guide you step-by-step through all the topics we cover.
- Trainings from donor conceived people, and on how to talk to friends and family to help kick start your learning and understanding of using a donor to build your family in a safe and supportive environment.
- Lifetime access to the modules, worksheets and trainings plus access to all updated content and additions over time.
- A private Facebook group to meet others who are going through the same thing you are.
Total value of this package is $4,600
You pay just $1,500 (or 3 payments of $550)
What My Clients Say About Me...
Blake
Jennifer
Amanda
Jessie
1:1 Coaching is FOR YOU if you...
1:1 Coaching is NOT for you if you...
[Before working with Meta] “I felt isolated, and unknown, and basically like no one understood what I was going through. It then manifested itself into anxiety and depression. I felt super defeated. This would cycle every month - I would have anxiety, then I would get sad, then I would get really depressed, and feel defeated again. Then I’d do some research, get a glimmer of hope and then it would repeat every month.
Meta helped me through so much. I feel so much more prepared [for using donor sperm]”
-Brittany, client
Hi! I'm Meta Getman
I am a donor conception coach and mom to donor conceived twin girls who went through 4 IUIs, 3 fresh IVF cycles with my own eggs, and one donor egg cycle before getting my big fat positive. Now I help family focused, responsible, and thoughtful women and couples who have found themselves facing a journey to parenthood they never imagined: using donor eggs, donor sperm, or donor embryo. I have been featured in multiple podcasts, spoken at the RESOLVE Midwest Family Building Summit and co-founded a community of families who used a donor to have their children.
Not only have I been through the devastation of infertility but I learned a TON along the way. And the biggest thing I learned is that there are not enough easy to use tools and sources of information on donor conception to help us feel confident in making these decisions. My husband and I chose to use donor but we were scared and felt unprepared for some of the questions we’ve had to face. When I went looking for an easy way to learn all about the process, it didn’t exist. I felt alone, isolated, lost, and overwhelmed.
That is why I started coaching. So you don’t have to spend hours and hours (that you don’t have) navigating all the information out there. Working with me you can get the support you need and help you move forward quicker, with less stress and anxiety and more support.
Still on the fence? Maybe this will help.
Think of it this way...when you are learning something new it always helps to have someone alongside you who has been there before, done what you are trying to do and can help guide you as you go. That is what a coach does! My job is to work with you, help you think through things you may not know to think through, provide information and resources for you use and help you to achieve the goals you set out to achieve. Can you do it without a coach? Yep! Will it be harder...probably.
The intent of working with me 1:1 is to help you get out of your fight or flight stress response and to help you find peace, calm, and tools to help you find the energy you've been missing. Yes, it feels like adding but the goal is that what you and I work on together will actually give you more energy and to focus that energy where you need it most.
This program is unlike anything out there. If you are ready to take action and move forward with confidence in building your family then this will be worth the investment. Think of what it will be like to not be nervous about using a donor but excited and certain!
The only person who can make the decision to use a donor is yourself and your partner. The information in The Donor Downlow will help you be more informed and make better decisions, regardless of the path you choose.
I wish! Unfortunately working with me 1:1 is not covered by insurance. But, I do offer payment plans to help lessen the load.
Let's talk about it! I want you to be happy, supported, and encouraged by working with me. If there is a problem we will work on it together.
100%! There is SO much that goes into choosing to use a donor and just because you've committed doesn't mean there isn't a LOT more we can work on together. Whether you've decided donor is your path or you are still trying to decide 1:1 coaching is so beneficial.
What You Get
- Initial 90-minute intake Zoom call so I can get to know you, your story, and we can start to build our action plan.
- 6 bi-weekly (every 2 weeks) Zoom calls where we will dive into your specific concerns/needs and develop action plans to address them.
- Unlimited messaging support in between calls to keep you on track, encouraged, and to help you keep moving forward.
- Personalized and tailored guidance to help you get to where you want to go faster and in a more streamlined way.
- Workbooks, worksheets, resource guides and tip sheets to guide you step-by-step through all the topics we cover.
- Trainings from donor conceived people, and on how to talk to friends and family to help kick start your learning and understanding of using a donor to build your family in a safe and supportive environment.
- Lifetime access to the modules, worksheets and trainings plus access to all updated content and additions over time.
- A private Facebook group to meet others who are going through the same thing you are.