The Donor Downlow 

A signature e-course and group coaching program by Meta Getman, Donor Conception Coach

Did your whole world come crashing down when your doctor told you that using a donor (egg, sperm, embryo) was the next option for building your family?

Or maybe, you've been going through infertility treatments but you have a sinking suspicion that donor might be your next step.

You’ve already wasted hours going down the Google rabbit hole of what using a donor actually means only to be left with more questions and a fear of the unknown.  

Now it’s time for a simpler way to learn about the donor conception process in an easy way that will leave you confident in your decisions on how you want to build your family.

When our second IVF had failed, our doctor called us into her office. 

As we talked, the words "use a donor" came out of her mouth. 

My eyes went blurry and hot tears started gushing down my face as my heart sank to the floor.  

In my head, what I heard her say was "you will never have a child of your own."

My initial response was a hard NO to donor.  But as I warmed up to the idea, the "no" turned into a maybe.  And as that maybe settled into my heart and mind, I started saying to myself.
  • your body has failed you and maybe you were not meant to have children
  • you will never feel completely connected to your child.
  • your child will reject you as their “real” parent because you are not connected by genetics to the rest of the family.
  • our families may not love them as much because of their genetics. 
  • other people won't see you as the "real" parents because you used a donor
And if you are like me, the fears and the unknowns of using a donor to build my family were, at times, paralyzing. 
My other infertile friends didn’t understand the new complexities of using a donor to build their families.  There wasn’t reliable information available to me about what I needed to think through, how my decisions now would impact my family going forward, or even how to pick a donor.

Regardless of whether you are just starting to consider using a donor egg, donor sperm or donor embryo or if you've started the process egg, imagine if you could...

go to one place to learn all about building your family using a donor egg, sperm, and embryo

address your fears and move forward with confidence that using a donor was the best choice for your family

move forward on your journey feeling excited instead of paralyzed

Introducing....The Donor Downlow

An e-course and group coaching program that gives you
the essential framework for building your family using a donor.

Let me show you how you can...


  • Gain a clear understanding of the donor process: from deciding donor is your path to choosing a donor to what to expect during your donor cycle.
  • Deepen your connection with your partner so you can make empowered decisions about your future family.
  • Find clarity on your feelings about using a donor so you can move from your emotional brain to your rational brain for confident decision making.
  • Be certain that you are building the family of your dreams.
  • Find a renewed sense of excitement about moving ahead with the next chapter of creating your dream family.
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    Here’s What You’ll Get


    • Video lessons and worksheets with all the information you need to feel confident in building your family using a donor
    • Weekly topics and exercises to help you make small steps forward on your journey
      • Topics include the three D's:
        • Destress - Research shows that when our brains are stressed (in fight or flight) mode we cannot access our rational decision making centers.  This module will help you get into your rational brain to find clarity in decision making.
        • Decide - making the decision to use and then move forward with donor egg, donor sperm, or donor embryo is life changing.  This module will guide you through this process so you are confident and prepared to move forward
        • Donor Cycle Process - Are you curious to know the logistical ins and outs of the process? From the role epigenetics plays to how to find a donor to what your cycle will actually be like 
        • Exercises include
          • Lessons and ways to put those lessons into practice
          • PDF worksheets to help guide you
          • Mediations MP3
    • Group Coaching Calls with Meta to get all your questions answered
    • Access to a private Facebook group to build connections with others going through the same thing you are.
    • Lifetime access to the course materials

    All this is valued at $597

    Plus...you'll get exclusive access to these bonuses!

    • Sharing Your Donor Story Workshop - Learn how to share your story with your future child and friends and family.  This includes a companion workbook, a resource guide for friends and family, and a curated list of children's books to get you started. Value = $124
    • The Connection Collection - a step-by-step guide for connecting with your spouse during infertility. Value = $47
    • Face Your Fertility Finance Fears - a masterclass hosted by The Fertility Finance Coach, Devon Baeza. Value = $34
    • Healing from Pregnancy Loss - a comprehensive guide to help you heal from all kinds of loss from Jackie Figuras, Miscarriage Support Specialist. Value = $47

    Grand total value = $846

    All of this is yours for just $397

    More Details

    Once you sign up you will get instant access to the introduction content and an activity to get you started immediately.  Then, join the private Facebook page to start meeting others who are part of the program.

    The program is split up between three modules and is set-up to be able to be completed in six weeks.  

    Module 1: Destress

    You can't start making good decisions until you are able to get from your emotional brain to your rational brain.  Our first module will help you get there! 

    Module 2: Decide

    Everything you need to know to be prepared for your donor cycle.  From epigenetics to what to expect throughout your treatment cycle. 

    Module 3: Donor Process

    Everything you need to know to be prepared for your donor cycle.  From epigenetics to what to expect throughout your treatment cycle. 

    Access to Bonus Content

    Get access to all the bonus content, live Q&A sessions with Meta, plus any updates, additions, and new offerings.  It's all included! 

    At the end of our time together you will be off the stress and worry hamster wheel and moving forward - excited for your next steps. 

    Plus, more details about the amazing bonuses that are included

    Sharing Your Donor Story Training

    Have you ever been worried about how you will respond if asked about your child being donor conceived? This webinar will teach you how to get comfortable speaking out it and develop a plan so you are never caught off guard. You will also get a companion workbook to implement the tools provided, a one page resource for friends and family and a curated list of children's books.

    Valued at $124

    The Connection Collection

    A step-by-step guide for how to engage in your relationship with your spouse during stress 

    You are not just trying to have a baby you are building your family. And typically, infertility can be one of the most stressful things your relationship goes through. This guide helps you not only turn towards each other instead of away from each other during this time of stress but it also helps you put into place a foundation for a strong partnership in parenting.  

    Valued at $47

    What to Expect When You're No Longer Expecting

    Infertility is full of loss.  Especially when transfers fail, chemical pregnancies happen, and miscarriages at any stage.  Jackie Figuras, Miscarriage Support Specialist has shared her amazing resource with you to help guide you through your loss physically, mentally, and emotionally.  

    Valued at $47

    Face Your Fertility Finance Fears

    Devon Baeza, aka The Fertility Finance Coach is giving members of the Donor Downlow exclusive access to her masterclass.  During this class Devon talks about how we can face down our fears so we can move forward. 

    Valued at $34

    Hi! I'm Meta Getman

    I am a donor conception coach and mom to donor conceived twin girls who went through 4 IUIs, 3 fresh IVF cycles with my own eggs, and one donor egg cycle before getting my big fat positive.  Now I help family focused, responsible, and thoughtful women and couples who have found themselves facing a journey to parenthood they never imagined: using donor eggs, donor sperm, or donor embryo.  I have been featured in multiple podcasts, spoken at the RESOLVE Midwest Family Building Summit and co-founded a community of families who used a donor to have their children.  

    Not only have I been through the devastation of infertility but I learned a TON along the way.  And the biggest thing I learned is that there are not enough easy to use tools and sources of information on donor conception to help us feel confident in making these decisions.  My husband and I chose to use donor but we were scared and felt unprepared for some of the questions we’ve had to face.  When I went looking for an easy way to learn all about the process, it didn’t exist.  I felt alone, isolated, lost, and overwhelmed.  

    That is why I created The Donor Downlow.  So you don’t have to spend hours and hours (that you don’t have) navigating all the information out there.  This course offers you a one-stop-shop for how to navigate your donor conception journey and helps you get all your questions answered. 

    What my Clients Say

    Amanda

    Client

    “The Donor Downlow was a great investment of our time. As Meta reminds you at the beginning, you can only get out of it what you put into it but the course content was easy to finish in a week. Meta provides a great path to lead you through the decision process and identifying your values and goals.

    We had made the decision to use a donor before signing up so I was unsure how beneficial the course would be, but the experience was invaluable. It made me more confident that it is the right decision for us and encouraged my husband & I to continue to have conversations about our excitement, fears, and concerns. Meta provided great insight and asked the right questions to make you think during the conversations as well.

    It was a great experience & I would recommend!

    Brittney

    Client

    [Before working with Meta] “I felt isolated, and unknown, and basically like no one understood what I was going through.  It then manifested itself into anxiety and depression.  I felt super defeated.  This would cycle every month - I would have anxiety, then I would get sad, then I would get really depressed, and feel defeated again.  Then I’d do some research, get a glimmer of hope and then it would repeat every month.

    Meta helped me through so much.  I feel so much more prepared [for using donor sperm]”


    Alyssa

    Client

    “Instead of seeing donor as my inability to succeed, I now see donor as my chance to have the family of my dreams.”

    The Donor Downlow is FOR YOU if you...

    • have been told you need to consider or your only hope to having a baby is to use donor egg, donor sperm, donor embryo 
    • are unsure if this is the path for you
    • are committed to using a donor (egg, sperm, embryo) and need some help through the process
    • want to have all the information possible before making a decision
    • are tired of Googling and searching for the best way forward for you and your family.
    • are looking for information about using a donor to build your family that is based in experience and scientific facts
    • are willing to give 1 hour per week for the next six weeks to learn more about how to build your family using a donor.
    • are tired of searching for answers and ready to move forward on your journey

    The Donor Downlow is NOT for you if you...

    • have not been told you need to use a donor
    • have not been told you need to use a donor
    • decided not to use a donor
    • are going to adopt a child

    Still on the fence? Maybe this will help.

    There are so many free Facebook groups out there, why should I pay for a course? 

    Trust me, I went down the Google rabbit hole and spent hours and hours looking for the information. Spoiler alert...it doesn’t exist. That is why I created The Donor Downlow! The Donor Downlow is laid out in a way that provides you with the exact information you are looking for in a way that is easy to follow, easy to consume, and easy to digest.

    I'm already exhausted.  I'm not sure I can add something else to my plate.

    All you need is 1 hour per week for the next six weeks. Plus, the content in the course will help restore some of that missing energy. You get to pick when you dive into the content during the week so you can make it work with your schedule. You get to do this at your own pace. If life gets in the way, this course will be waiting for you when you can pick it up again.

    I'm scared this will be another wasted investment.

    This program is unlike anything out there.  If you are ready to take action and move forward with confidence in building your family then this will be worth the investment.  Think of what it will be like to not be nervous about using a donor but excited and certain!  If, after the first week, you’ve given it your all and it just isn’t for you, I am happy to refund you.

    I'm not sure if using donor is right for me.  Will this course tell me what I should do? 

    The only person who can make the decision to use a donor is yourself and your partner.  The information in The Donor Downlow will help you be more informed and make better decisions, regardless of the path you choose. 

    I've already committed to using a donor.  Will this course work for me too? 

    Yes! This course will make you confident in your decision, help you build a community of support, and prepare you to be the best parents of donor conceived children you can be.

    What if I sign-up and then decide it's not for me?

    If, after 7 days, you decide this isn't for you, let me know and we will work it out.  My goal for you is to be happy! 

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    Here’s What You’ll Get


    • Video lessons and worksheets with all the information you need to feel confident in building your family using a donor
    • Weekly topics and exercises to help you make small steps forward on your journey
      • Topics include the three D's:
        • Destress - Research shows that when our brains are stressed (in fight or flight) mode we cannot access our rational decision making centers.  This module will help you get into your rational brain to find clarity in decision making.
        • Decide - making the decision to use and then move forward with donor egg, donor sperm, or donor embryo is life changing.  This module will guide you through this process so you are confident and prepared to move forward
        • Donor Cycle Process - Are you curious to know the logistical ins and outs of the process? From the role epigenetics plays to how to find a donor to what your cycle will actually be like 
        • Exercises include
          • Lessons and ways to put those lessons into practice
          • PDF worksheets to help guide you
          • Mediations MP3
    • Group Coaching Calls with Meta to get all your questions answered
    • Access to a private Facebook group to build connections with others going through the same thing you are.
    • Lifetime access to the course materials

    All this is valued at $597

    Plus...you'll get exclusive access to these bonuses!

    • Sharing Your Donor Story Workshop - Learn how to share your story with your future child and friends and family.  This includes a companion workbook, a resource guide for friends and family, and a curated list of children's books to get you started. Value = $124
    • The Connection Collection - a step-by-step guide for connecting with your spouse during infertility. Value = $47
    • Face Your Fertility Finance Fears - a masterclass hosted by The Fertility Finance Coach, Devon Baeza. Value = $34
    • Healing from Pregnancy Loss - a comprehensive guide to help you heal from all kinds of loss from Jackie Figuras, Miscarriage Support Specialist. Value = $47

    Grand total value = $846

    All of this is yours for just $397