Donor Decision Guide 

Hearing that you might have to use a donor (egg, sperm, or embryo) to build your family can leave you paralyzed.  My Donor Decision Guide is exactly what you need to get you started.

What is inside?

The Donor Decision Guide is a free, PDF download and is packed full of the information you need to help get you started on your journey to using a donor to build your family. 

  • Questions for you to consider personally to help you know if this is the right path for you.
  • Questions to ask your doctor so you are informed of the process and next steps.
  • Questions to ask your donor bank (or where you are getting your donor from).
  • Questions to consider as you begin to consider what characteristics you would like in a donor.  

Meta Getman

Meta Getman (pronounced "May-da") is a donor conception coach and mom to donor conceived twin girls who went through 8 rounds of fertility treatments before seeing her big fat positive. Now she helps family focused, responsible, and thoughtful women and couples who have found themselves facing a path to parenthood they never imagined: using donor eggs, donor sperm, or donor embryo. She is the host of Infertility Crossroads, the founder of The Donor Downlow, an online program for people at the crossroads of using donor conception, has been a speaker at the RESOLVE Midwest Family Building Summit and co-founded a community of families who used donor to have their children.