Build your family with confidence instead of fear.

The Donor Downlow is an online course plus coaching program that helps you go from "oh sh*t, we might need a donor to have a family" to feeling confident in *whatever* decision you make.

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Did your whole world come crashing down when your doctor told you that using a donor (egg, sperm, embryo) was the next option for building your family?

or...

Maybe, you've been going through infertility treatments but you have a sinking suspicion that donor might be your next step.

or...

You've spent hours scrolling through Facebook groups, Google, and Instagram hashtags trying to learn as much as you can about what it actually means to use a donor to build your family only to be left with more questions than answers.

If you said "ugh yes!" then we've got something in common.

When the doctor told me the only way to have a baby was to use donor eggs, my first reaction was "NO WAY! I am NOT using donor eggs to have a baby!"

I was devastated, confused, angry and broken and I had no idea if donor was the right path for us.

Then the fears started flooding my mind and I couldn't stop thinking about them...

What did I do wrong to make this happen to me?
Will my child even feel like mine if there is not a biological connection?
Am I being selfish for using a donor? Maybe I'm not meant to be a mom
What if my feelings of not being the biological parent never go away and I'm always sad about it?
Will my kids be mad at me for using a donor to create them?

These thoughts and fears of using a donor to have a baby were paralyzing and keeping me from being able to move forward.

If you are feeling the same way I did

...paralyzed to move forward

...unsure of what your next steps are going to be

...freaked out because your doctor brought up donor and you can't figure out if this is the right path for you

Then you are in the right place.

Now...imagine if you could...

stop the spiral of worry and fear about your next steps

get clarity around what the next best option is for you to have a baby

connect with others who have wrestled with the same challenges you are

move forward on your journey feeling excited and confident that you can handle whatever comes your way

Introducing....The Donor Downlow

My signature program that gives the framework and tools you need to make the best decision about your next steps to having a baby, whether donor is your next step or not.

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Let me show you how you can...

Stop the worry spiral and feeling stuck on what to do next so you are able to make rational and confident decisions.
Find clarity on your feelings about your family building options and what the best next step is for you and your family.
Be certain that you are building the family of your dreams, whatever that looks like.
Find a renewed sense of excitement about moving ahead with the next chapter of creating your dream family.
Deepen your connection with your partner so you can make empowered decisions about your future family.
Gain a clear understanding of the donor process: from deciding donor is your path to choosing a donor to what to expect during a donor cycle so you are well informed on what to expect.

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- Sarah, Donor Downlow Memeber

This course is JAM PACKED!

Video lessons and worksheets with all the information you need to guide you through your decision making process.
Weekly topics and exercises to help you make small steps forward on your journey
- The modules are broken down into three main categories:
  - Destress - research shows that when our brains are stressed (in fight or flight) mode we cannot access our rational decision making centers. This module will help you get into your rational brain to find clarity in decision making.
  - Determine - we will tackle each of the decision making steps in a clear, easy to follow, and even easier to implement formula. I guide you each step of the way so you are confident and prepared to move forward, whatever that looks like for you.
  - Decide - this module is all about what it truly means to build your family using a donor. From epigenetics, to the implications of the type of donor you choose, to talking to your child about their conception, you will learn what it really means to be a parent to donor conceived children so you can decide if this is the right path for you.
One 45-minute one on one sessions with Meta where you can get all your personalized questions answered (to be used within 6 weeks of the purchase date)
Access to a private Facebook group to build connections with others going through the same thing you are.
Lifetime access to the course materials

All this is valued at $997

Plus...you'll get exclusive access to these bonuses!

Donor Conception Conversations - Learn how to share your story with your future child and friends and family. This includes a companion workbook, a resource guide for friends and family, and a curated list of children's books to get you started. Value = $124
Perspectives of Donor Conceived People - we all can be better when we are listening to others perspectives. Hear from Melissa Lindsey, a donor conceived person and founder and community director of Donor Conceived Support. Value = $124
The Connection Collection - a step-by-step guide for connecting with your spouse during infertility. Value = $47
Face Your Fertility Finance Fears - a masterclass hosted by The Fertility Finance Coach, Devon Baeza. Value = $34
Healing from Pregnancy Loss - a comprehensive guide to help you heal from all kinds of loss from Jackie Figuras, Miscarriage Support Specialist. Value = $47
Healing Mind and Body through Meditation - four meditations to help calm your mind and body in a downloadable format to take with you on the go. Value = $47
PLUS TWO EXTRA BONUSES!
- Unlocking Your Fertility Fortitude: A personalized workbook to help you navigate the fertility unknowns. This workbook is jam packed full of resources, strategies, worksheets, and templates to help you not just unlock your courage and strength in facing the unknowns but to thrive doing it. Value = $99
- Mindful Moments Mini-Course: Mindfulness and learning how to be present in the moment is a skill and one that takes practice. This mini course will help you start to learn and hone your mindfulness skills while focusing on specific topics like anxiety, anger, fear, and rest. Value = $149

Grand total value = $1668

Your Price = $497

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Course Modules and More Details

Once you sign up you will get instant access to all the course materials and bonuses. You can get started right away!

The course is divided up into three modules and was created for you to complete the whole program in six weeks. But it's also self-paced so if you need more time or want to go through it faster, it is completely up to you.

Module 1: Destress

You can't start making good decisions until you are able to get from your emotional brain to your rational brain. Our first module will help you get there!

Module 2: Determine

Confident decision making comes from knowing your choices are aligned to who you are and who you want to be. This module guides you through the decision process.

Module 3: Decide

From epigenetics, to the implications of the type of donor you choose, to talking to your child about their conception, you will learn what it really means to be a parent to donor conceived children so you can decide if this is the right path for you.

At the end of our time together you will be off the stress and worry hamster wheel and moving forward - excited for your next steps!

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Donor Downlow Bonuses

The course is packed with content that will give you everything you need to successfully go from fear to confidence. But, that's not all. I've partnered with experts across the fertility space to give you these amazing bonuses just for signing up.

DONOR CONVERSATIONS

This training teaches you how to get comfortable speaking about using a donor and helps you develop a plan so you are never caught off guard. You will also get a companion workbook to implement the tools provided, a one page resource for friends and family and a curated list of children's books.

Value = $124

meditations

Healing your heart and mind takes practice. Simone L'Abbé, a mindfulness and fertility meditation specialist walks you through four different meditations to help calm your mind and body.

Value = $97

Perspectives of DCP

We all can be better when we are listening to others perspectives. Hear from Melissa Lindsey, a donor conceived person and founder and community director of Donor Conceived Support.

Value = $124

Connection Collection

You are not just trying to have a baby you are building your family. And typically, infertility can be one of the most stressful things your relationship goes through. This guide helps you not only turn towards each other instead of away from each other during this time of stress but it also helps you put into place a foundation for a strong partnership in parenting.

Value = $47

Guide to Loss

What to Expect When You're no Longer Expecting is a guide to support you physically, mentally, and emotionally through all kinds of loss. When transfers fail, chemical pregnancies happen and miscarriages take place at any stage this resource provides you the extra support you need. Curated by Jackie Figuras, Miscarriage Support Specialist.

Value = $47

Fertility finances

Devon Baeza, aka The Fertility Finance Coach is giving members of the Donor Downlow exclusive access to her masterclass. During this class Devon talks about how we can face down our fears so we can move forward.

Value = $34

Unlocking Your Fertility Fortitude Workbook

A personalized workbook to help you navigate the fertility unknowns. This workbook is jam packed full of resources, strategies, worksheets, and templates to help you not just unlock your courage and strength in facing the unknowns but to thrive doing it.

Value = $99

MIndful Moments Mini-Course

Mindfulness and learning how to be present in the moment is a skill and one that takes practice. This mini course will help you start to learn and hone your mindfulness skills while focusing on specific topics like anxiety, anger, fear, and rest.

Value = $149

The Donor Downlow is FOR YOU if you...

have been told you need to consider or your only hope to having a baby is to use donor egg, donor sperm, donor embryo
are unsure if this is the path for you
are committed to using a donor (egg, sperm, embryo) but are still not feeling totally confident in your decision
want to have as much information possible before making a decision
are tired of Googling and searching for the best way forward for you and your family.
are looking for information about using a donor to build your family that is based in experience and scientific facts
are willing to give 1 hour per week for the next six weeks to learn more about how to build your family using a donor.
are tired of searching for answers and ready to move forward on your journey

This is me. Let's do this!

The Donor Downlow is NOT for you if you...

have not been told you need to use a donor
decided that donor isn't the path for you
plan to adopt
are not willing to put in the work to change your mindset and move forward

Hi! I'm Meta Getman

I am a donor conception coach and mom to donor conceived twin girls who went through 4 IUIs, 3 fresh IVF cycles with my own eggs, and one donor egg cycle before getting my big fat positive. Now I help family focused, responsible, and thoughtful women and couples who have found themselves facing a journey to parenthood they never imagined: using donor eggs, donor sperm, or donor embryo. I have been featured in multiple podcasts, spoken at the RESOLVE Midwest Family Building Summit and co-founded a community of families who used a donor to have their children.

Not only have I been through the devastation of infertility but I learned a TON along the way. And the biggest thing I learned is that there are not enough easy to use tools and sources of information on donor conception to help us feel confident in making these decisions. My husband and I chose to use donor but we were scared and felt unprepared for some of the questions we’ve had to face. When I went looking for an easy way to learn all about the process, it didn’t exist. I felt alone, isolated, lost, and overwhelmed.

That is why I created The Donor Downlow. So you don’t have to spend hours and hours (that you don’t have) navigating all the information out there. This course offers you a one-stop-shop for how to navigate your donor conception journey and helps you get all your questions answered.

What Clients Say

“The Donor Downlow was a great investment of our time. Meta provides a great path to lead you through the decision process and identifying your values and goals.

Amanda ● Future donor egg mama

“The Donor Downlow helped demystify the process and put many of my worries at ease, giving me a great deal of information and more confidence to move forward with my journey."

Jessie ● Donor Downlow Member

[Before working with Meta] “I felt isolated, and unknown, and basically like no one understood what I was going through. It then manifested itself into anxiety and depression. I felt super defeated. This would cycle every month - I would have anxiety, then I would get sad, then I would get really depressed, and feel defeated again. Then I’d do some research, get a glimmer of hope and then it would repeat every month.

Meta helped me through so much. I feel so much more prepared [for using donor sperm]”

Brittany ● Donor sperm mama

“Instead of seeing donor as my inability to succeed, I now see donor as my chance to have the family of my dreams.”

Alyssa ● Donor embryo recipient

“I can't thank you enough for the guidance and support your provided through the DD course. I know I will be leaning on those resources for years to come. Thank you."

Lisa ● Donor Downlow Member

Still on the fence? Maybe this will help.

There are so many free Facebook groups out there, why should I pay for a course?

Trust me, I went down the Google rabbit hole and spent hours and hours looking for the information. Spoiler alert...it doesn’t exist. That is why I created The Donor Downlow! The Donor Downlow is laid out in a way that provides you with the exact information you are looking for in a way that is easy to follow, easy to consume, and easy to digest.

I'm already exhausted. I'm not sure I can add something else to my plate.

All you need is 1 hour per week for the next six weeks. Plus, the content in the course will help restore some of that missing energy. You get to pick when you dive into the content during the week so you can make it work with your schedule. You get to do this at your own pace. If life gets in the way, this course will be waiting for you when you can pick it up again.

I'm scared this will be another wasted investment.

This program is unlike anything out there. If you are ready to take action and move forward with confidence in building your family then this will be worth the investment. Think of what it will be like to not be nervous about using a donor but excited and certain! If, after the first week, you’ve given it your all and it just isn’t for you, I am happy to refund you.

I'm not sure if using donor is right for me. Will this course tell me what I should do?

The only person who can make the decision to use a donor is yourself and your partner. The information in The Donor Downlow will help you be more informed and make better decisions, regardless of the path you choose.

I've already committed to using a donor. Will this course work for me too?

Yes! This course will make you confident in your decision, help you build a community of support, and prepare you to be the best parents of donor conceived children you can be.

What if I sign-up and then decide it's not for me?

If, after 7 days, you decide this isn't for you, let me know and we will work it out. My goal for you is to be happy!

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